Reclaiming Masculinity for Modern Men
Talks and workshops that help men move from shame, shutdown, and confusion into grounded strength, emotional depth, and healthy leadership.
Why this Message Matters
Men are hearing loud, confusing messages about masculinity. Some are told that masculinity itself is dangerous. Others are told to double down on toughness and never feel. Neither path leads to wholeness. Licensed Therapist and Men's Coach Christian St. Jacques, LMHC, brings a more grounded message: masculinity itself is not toxic, but when men lose healthy models, emotional depth, and a clear sense of purpose, distortion follows.
Through keynote talks, workshops, and conversations, he helps audiences reframe masculinity in a way that is honest, responsible, and deeply hopeful. His message speaks to men, couples, parents, churches, schools, leadership spaces, and communities that want stronger men without shame, blame, or cultural extremes.
Signature Talk
Reclaiming Masculinity: Taking the “Toxic” Out of Men
Most conversations about “toxic masculinity” leave men feeling shamed, confused, or defensive, and no closer to real change. This talk separates masculinity itself from toxic behavior and offers a practical path for men to reclaim a healthier identity through healthy archetypes, emotional intelligence, and responsible self-awareness.
Audience will leave with:
A healthier, non-shaming framework for talking about masculinity.
A practical path for emotional growth, responsibility, and relational strength.
Language that helps men, couples, parents, and leaders have better conversations.
Additional Talks
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TALK 1: The King, the Warrior, and the Lost Boy
Why men need modern rites of passage, healthy archetypes, and intentional mentorship to grow into grounded adulthood.
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TALK 2: From Numb to Noble
Why emotional intelligence is not a weakness, and how men can move from shutdown into clarity, connection, and strength.
Who this is for
Men's groups, retreats, and masterminds
Churches and faith communities
Parenting and education communities
Coaching, mental health, and wellness spaces
Leadership, relationships, and personal growth events
Available Formats
18–20 minute keynote
30–45 minute keynote with Q&A
60–90 minute workshop
Virtual or in-person sessions in Europe and the United States
Booking
To inquire about speaking availability for your event, retreat, summit, school, church, podcast, or men's community, email intentionalman411@gmail.com or use the contact form by clicking on the button below.
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TALK 3: Wired Different Not Broken
A practical conversation about male wiring, biology, responsibility, and how men can work with their design instead of being ruled by it.
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TALK 4: Raising Whole Sons in a Confused Culture
A talk for parents, schools, and communities on helping boys grow into emotionally healthy, grounded men.