Growing up, I navigated a diverse upbringing, starting in Honolulu, Hawaii, before moving across states due to my father's military service. Settling finally in Seattle, Washington, the blend of my French/German father and Filipino mother shaped my identity with its unique mix, yet posed challenges in finding my place.
My world shifted when my parents divorced during my early teens, leading to a fractured family dynamic. This upheaval left emotional imprints, quietly affecting my personal and relational life. Throughout my youth and into adulthood, I struggled to reconcile who I felt I should be with my authentic self, seeking validation externally and performing to fit societal molds.
Early exposure to porn and sexual interferences altered my journey toward healthy sexual development, steering it toward fleeting pleasures and patterns of unhealthy self-regulation as I matured.
College introduced me to profound spiritual encounters that began a transformative journey. However, despite these moments, I found myself trapped in cycles of being the 'nice guy,' performing religiously, and grappling with insecurities that fueled seeking validation through destructive or self-sabotaging relationships.
Guidance from mentors, counseling, and inner healing rituals gradually unraveled past wounds, allowing me to redefine my values and reconnect with my authentic self. This journey led me to a version of myself that didn’t rely on performance for identity but instead channeled ambitions into purpose-driven endeavors, embracing career goals, financial responsibility, and personal growth encompassing mind, body, and spirit.
It's important to note that my journey isn't about having all the answers but about embracing personal growth. Today, I cherish a loving marriage of over a decade and the joys of fatherhood. While not everyone I assist is at this stage of life, I advocate for healthy spiritual, emotional, and physical well-being, aiming for success grounded in values and a meaningful contribution to relationships and communities.
My purpose is to mentor intentional men, offering guidance toward holistic growth.
Where I’m at today
I reside in the beautiful state of Washington here in the US. I live with my wife of 11 years, Dr. Renee St. Jacques, and my two beautiful children. A lot of my life currently involves being an intentional husband and father. Aside from my passion for men’s emotional health and well-being, I take part in rich experiences and adventures by traveling the world. I enjoy discussing finance, economics, hip-hop, comic books, and philosophy. I LOVE food and cooking! I participate and am passionate about overall nutrition, holistic health, biohacking, and fostering healthy daily habits of mental, emotional, physical grounding, and discipline.
